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Friday, May 20, 2005

Free Friday's Friendly Forum







O.K., after meeting with my staff(Imara), and checking the numbers, stats, and graphs, we have decided to try out an open forum on Fridays. We here at "Where Two or More.....", have decided to open up a free forum called "Free Friday's Friendly Forum", where we will give our reader(s) a chance to express what's on your mind(s), in an effort to try and offer advice to you, the reader(s), with whatever issues and problems you might be facing.

It is our goal here at "Where Two or More....." to try and connect with the public and see just what issues are of concern to you. We also want everyone to know that no subject is off limits and no issue too taboo to confront. We understand the need for some of our readers to remain private , so we have agreed to allow anonymous comments for Friday(s) only(Two Dogs). This will provide those who wish to raise sensitive issues, to be able to remain anonymous and still be able to participate. However , if it becomes a problem, anonymous commenting will be turned off , suddenly, and without warning(Two Dogs). If all goes well, this will become a recurring fixture here at our site.

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77 Comments:

Blogger Goldi said...

So there is this guy right (I knoooooooow there always is some guy). He's been chasing me in an aloof manner for 5 months (aloof manner part of the mutual playahs/serial daters code I guess).

What is annoying is that he will ask me what I am doing that evening - and I tell him my social life is scheduled. My friends tell me I'm too rigid - so now I do "call me". He always calls around 11ish during the week (sigh too late for a "proper" first date).

Recently he mentioned drinks and get nekkid, then wanting to see me in one of the bikini tops I make. What I wanted to hear was hey, I landed 2 tickets for Star Wars.

I'm like dayam I thought he was a southern gentleman. He just wants bootay. I hould have know something was wrong when I saw him wearing mint green (mock) crocodile shoes. Yeah! You heard me!

Is chivalry dead?

Fri May 20, 10:14:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>I hould have know something was wrong when I saw him wearing mint green (mock) crocodile shoes.

Now I was going to tell you to cut the brotha some slack until I got to this part of the story! This is not a good look. LOL!!

Unfortunately, I do think that chivalry is dead to some men. You have to hold true to what Goldi wants. If you want to be wined and dined, then accept nothing less. If you're really interested in this guy, (even if you're not, the advice might do him some good down the line!) tell him that if he wants to be graced with your company, he should give you the respect of asking you on a "date" atleast a week in advance, and the invitation should be extended before 11pm! If he isn't out for the "goodies", he will gladly oblige. If not, then you'll know that it wasn't a good situation to begin with and his intentions weren't pure. Good Luck!!

Fri May 20, 11:07:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Are any man's intentions pure?

Girl the shoes matched his linen jacket. LOL. Unless you are an artist or gay--that look is considered high fashion down herr in tha durrty-durrty.

Where is everybody?

Fri May 20, 11:23:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Some men's intentions are pure, but they usually have some other "issue" that they're trying to overcome.

Oh no... not the linen suit! Hey now! LOL!

You know, I was wondering the same thing?? It's just not the same without Soundboyz. :( He always knows just how to either piss you off or make you laugh.

*Yelling* Sooouundboyzzzz... where aarrre yooouuu?

Fri May 20, 11:31:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Two Dogs said...

Goldi, believe it or not, I think that most men's intentions are good. Most guys that I know would give their right arm to find a good woman.

Fri May 20, 11:33:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Imara: Did I mention white pants and a pinkand white checked shirt? I mean it worked. Very spring playah. My friends complain that I am narrow minded when it comes to dating, so I am trying to date out of my social group.

He's been peristant for 5 months. And I would not have noticed his interest if a friend did not point it out, "Girl did you see HOW he took is hat off to ask you what you were doing tonight?". Very Southern.

Two Dogs: You may have a point. But the other head always takes over. So often times instead of speaking from the heart and mind; men speak from the groin and want some behind.

Fri May 20, 11:45:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Ya know Two Dogs, most woman would give a limb to find a good man, as well.

Fri May 20, 11:48:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Goldi, he was workin' it, Girl! I'm sure it looked a lot better than it sounds. :) When a man takes the time to dress like this, it shows that he has a strong attention to detail. And he removed his hat?! He has manners to boot!

What makes you so "narrow minded", Goldi?

Fri May 20, 11:51:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I just remembered, Soundboyz always allowed "Anonymous" comments on Friday's. But, I'ma tell y'all right now, first one to act up, will be the cause of them being revoked with the quickness!

Sorry, trying to enforce the rules like Soundboyz! He leaves me incharge and I immediately become drunk with power! *Hehehe*

Fri May 20, 11:57:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>What makes you so "narrow minded", Goldi?

Ahhhh....that would be her "narrow mind"!!!

Guess what makes her "narrow behinded"?

Fri May 20, 11:57:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I just remembered, Soundboyz always allowed "Anonymous" comments on Friday's. But, I'ma tell y'all right now, first one to act up, will be the cause of them being revoked with the quickness!

GOLDI!!!!!!

Fri May 20, 11:58:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>Sorry, trying to enforce the rules like Soundboyz! He leaves me incharge and I immediately become drunk with power! *Hehehe*

Not to mention the Jesus Juice you've been sippin'!!!:)

Fri May 20, 12:00:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Hey Soundboyz!!!! Nice to have you back! Two Dogs told us you were off to Hawaii. Did you get laid? *giggle*

Fri May 20, 12:00:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

*singing*

Sippin' on Jesus Juice
Laid back
With my mind on my money and my money on my mind

Fri May 20, 12:03:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> Hey Soundboyz!!!! Nice to have you back! Two Dogs told us you were off to Hawaii. Did you get laid? *giggle*

Ha Ha Ha!!!!:( Very CUTE Imara!!!!I will have you know that whatever happens in Hawaii , stays in Hawaii!!!!

Fri May 20, 12:15:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> *singing*

Sippin' on Jesus Juice
Laid back
With my mind on my money and my money on my mind

Sounds like someone has NOTHING to think about!!!!

Fri May 20, 12:17:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Imara > What makes you so "narrow minded", Goldi?

I don't date locals or blue-collar gents. Mr. Playah is a local but self-employed.

I usually date artists and international men (Carribbean, African, transcultural, etc.)

Fri May 20, 12:19:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Is Goldi being asked out by Morris Day?

Fri May 20, 12:19:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I don't date locals or blue-collar gents. Mr. Playah is a local but self-employed.

He's a PIMP Goldi!!!!!

Fri May 20, 12:21:00 PM 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is this annoying guy who comments on my posts. Sometimes he get's outta hand. He even scared off one of his regulars.

He was MIA for a day and a half and I found myself missing him.

Now, that he is back, I don't know how to react. I just hope he got some azz so he'll act sane.

Perhaps he was channeling his blog energy in surfing for porn.

Fri May 20, 12:23:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I usually date artists and international men (Carribbean, African, transcultural, etc.)


Goldi, maybe you should try the Dating Game, or Change of Hearts, or Fifth Wheel?

Fri May 20, 12:25:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>He was MIA for a day and a half and I found myself missing him.

I LOVE you TOO Goldi Lox!!!!!LOL!!!LOL!!!LOL!!!

Fri May 20, 12:27:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>He was MIA for a day and a half and I found myself missing him.

I know what you mean, "Anonymous". I felt the same when about Soundboyz being gone.

>Perhaps he was channeling his blog energy in surfing for porn.

Hopefully it will have had a calming effect on him. Keep us posted!

Fri May 20, 12:29:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>Now, that he is back, I don't know how to react. I just hope he got some azz so he'll act sane.


Maybe you should contribute towards this guy acting sane Goldi?!?!?!

Fri May 20, 12:31:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Imara, you know that's Goldi as anonymous!!!!!!Stop playing like she's not anonymous and she's not talking about ME!!!!!:]

Fri May 20, 12:34:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>He even scared off one of his regulars.

Your AZZ just might be NEXT ANONYMOUS!!!!

Fri May 20, 12:35:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Soundboyz > Is Goldi being asked out by Morris Day? LOL!

Ameikkka have you heard? (Yiii)
There's a new dance called the bird (Yiii)
Soundboyz has NO finess or personality but his crazy blog azz is alright with me!

Fri May 20, 12:44:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Sounboyz > Goldi, maybe you should try the Dating Game, or Change of Hearts, or Fifth Wheel?

I thought about it but that is not how I want to make my mark. ...And Sex & The City has been done.

Fri May 20, 12:46:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I thought about it but that is not how I want to make my mark. ...And Sex & The City has been done.

Instead of Sex & The City, how about Booty & The Ghetto?

Fri May 20, 12:50:00 PM 2005  
Blogger chaudes said...

mmm...well
I have posted some of
my photos here

Fri May 20, 12:50:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Two Dogs said...

Hey, those pictures are NOT work safe. Who's the porn peddler?

Fri May 20, 01:06:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Hey Two Dogs. I was in the process of trying to find out who did that!!!!Funny, you seem to pop up at the most convenient of times!!!!!

Fri May 20, 01:08:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Hey, notice how the ladies are all "missing"!!!!!I wonder what they're looking at?!?!?!?!?!?@@

Fri May 20, 01:09:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

I have to do some more research, but I think I know who did this!!!!!!!

Fri May 20, 01:11:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

my...virgin...eyes...burning!

Fri May 20, 01:13:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>Stop playing like she's not anonymous and she's not talking about ME!!!!!:]

I see that the time away hasn't changed your inflated ego!!

Fri May 20, 01:14:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I'm afraid to look at the link!!!

Fri May 20, 01:17:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I noticed that "Chaudes" is just started their blog!! I think I know who this is!! LMAO!!!

Fri May 20, 01:19:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> my...virgin...eyes...burning!

Your eyes are about the only things that I might believe are virgin on you!!!!And I would even question that!!!!I will find out who did that!!!!I am pretty sure I know , but I will be certain in the next hour or two!!!!!I still have to do more research!!!!!!Has ANYONE heard from Imara since the pics?

Fri May 20, 01:19:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I see that the time away hasn't changed your inflated ego!!

LEAVE DOLLY OUT OF THIS!!!!!!!

Fri May 20, 01:22:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> I'm afraid to look at the link!!!

Yea.....right Imara!!!!!!!You've only been gone for the last half hour!!!!!BUSTED!!!!!!!!!I think I know who did this!!!!!The clues are in the comments.....notice the "mmm". That's three m's!!!!Who's known for using this often?:(

Fri May 20, 01:24:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>I see that the time away hasn't changed your inflated ego!!

>LEAVE DOLLY OUT OF THIS!!!!!!!


Oh, SORRY, I misunderstood!!!!!:)

Fri May 20, 01:25:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>You've only been gone for the last half hour!!!!!BUSTED!!!!!!!!!

Didn't know I was being "watched"! Well for your information... I had something to do!! No "busted" here!! If I looked, I would say I looked!! Believe me, I want to look, but I just can't at the moment!! LOL!!!

Fri May 20, 01:32:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Everyone notice how the comments pick up when Soundboyz comes back?!? WELCOME HOME, SB!!

Fri May 20, 01:33:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Okay, so I went and looked at the pictures. My, my, my... Chaudes is one kinky blogger!

Fri May 20, 01:46:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>Sounds like someone has NOTHING to think about!!!!

No Soundboyz, you misunderstood. I said I was thinking about MY money... not yours! :)

Fri May 20, 01:47:00 PM 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow I just looked at a kinky link and all I can think about is Soundboyz, Dolly and me!

Fri May 20, 02:00:00 PM 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow I just looked at a kinky link and all I can think about is Soundboyz, Dolly and me!

Fri May 20, 02:00:00 PM 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow I just looked at a kinky link and all I can think about is Soundboyz, Dolly and me!

Fri May 20, 02:00:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>Well for your information... I had something to do!!

Yep!!!!

Fri May 20, 02:18:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> Everyone notice how the comments pick up when Soundboyz comes back?!? WELCOME HOME, SB!!

Thanks Imara, I missed everyone a lot!!!

Fri May 20, 02:19:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> Wow I just looked at a kinky link and all I can think about is Soundboyz, Dolly and me!

CONTROL YOURSELF Goldi!!!!!!It's unbecoming of a lady like yourself!!!!!


And I do believe you Be Coming!!!!:(

Fri May 20, 02:21:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> Wow I just looked at a kinky link and all I can think about is Soundboyz, Dolly and me!

And Goldi knows she just got BUSTED because her computer always messes up and posts multiple times!!!!!:)BUSTED!!!!!!It's alright Goldi, I have room in my life for more than one air head!!!!!LOL!!!!LOL!!!!!JK:)

Fri May 20, 02:27:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Ummmm, sorry Soundboyz I'm eating lunch and watching "Next Friday" knowing you, you posted it yourself.

Fri May 20, 03:04:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> Ummmm, sorry Soundboyz I'm eating lunch and watching "Next Friday" knowing you, you posted it yourself.



Right Goldi!!!!
Tell your momma I said AAAAhhhhahhh!!!!

Fri May 20, 03:09:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

^ See you scared Imara away!

Fri May 20, 03:38:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

That's right Goldi!!!!!I scared her away.....now it's just YOU......and ME!!!!!Come here Goldi, let me tell you a secret!!!!!!!

Fri May 20, 03:40:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

Soundboyz!! Leave Goldi alone and let her enjoy her lunch! Good Lord.

Sat May 21, 11:39:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Imara, I was just playing!!!!

Sat May 21, 11:48:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Yeah Soundboyz i'ms ure you would just loooooove to play. Instead, you just get played. :->

Sat May 21, 05:47:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

Okay where is everyone? I'm posting more consistantly than you guys.

Mon May 23, 10:38:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Calm down Goldi, I know you can't live without me!!!!I'm right here!!!

Mon May 23, 10:39:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Goldi said...

^Freakish lurker. Should have known

Mon May 23, 10:44:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I'm here, too.

Soundboyz, what's up with a new post? If you want to wait until tomorrow, I will try to come up with one later today.

Mon May 23, 11:18:00 AM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>Soundboyz, what's up with a new post? If you want to wait until tomorrow, I will try to come up with one later today.

Should have thought about that over the WHOLE WEEKEND instead of getting your FREAK on!!!!


Imara, I will write one !!!

Mon May 23, 11:31:00 AM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>Should have thought about that over the WHOLE WEEKEND instead of getting your FREAK on!!!!

Seeing as there isn't a new post, I guess I wasn't the only one! LOL!!

Mon May 23, 11:36:00 AM 2005  
Blogger KR said...

I'm back from vacation---you sure have been busy!

I've got a question I'd love to see addressed in this forum.

Why do black women get so upset when black men date white women?

A colleague and I went out after work a few times and I started getting the cold shoulder from some of the women. I asked what it was about and Shonte told me that they didn't like white girls moving in on the few good black men in town. I was in a long-term relationship at the time--I wanted to laugh but she was dead serious. I talked to Tony about it and we agreed that perception was everything--so we stopped hanging out together.

I didn't get any flack from whites about Tony. Just blacks. Its been 10 years and I'm still baffled. Is is a topic you'd be willing to tackle? I really want to understand.

Mon May 23, 12:24:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

>Seeing as there isn't a new post, I guess I wasn't the only one! LOL!!

I had stuff to DO!!!!

Mon May 23, 12:25:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

>Is is a topic you'd be willing to tackle? I really want to understand.

Welcome Back Kelly! It hasn't been the same without you. :) I hope you enjoyed your vacation. I will have to stop by your site to get the catch-up.

If my memory serves me right, we might have touched on this subject before, but I'm sure we'd be more than happy to discuss again. No subject is off limits here!

Unfortunately, "good" black men (ie: educated, no criminal record, employed, responsible, respectful, spiritual, deep thinker, etc.) are hard to find, and because of that, when they date white woman- given our history with the white race and the current state of the black family- we see that as a threat. It sounds like in your case the "threat" was really unfounded, as you stated that you were in a long-term relationship. I guess it's not always a rational situation. It can be hard to explain.

Mon May 23, 01:01:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

HI KELLY!!!!!!!!!:):):):):):):):):):):):)

It is nice to hear from you!!!!I missed you!!!!I kept going to your place to see if you were back , but I always left sad:( and disappointed:(:(!!

I want to hear all about your vacation, so please do fill us in!!!!!I hope you had a wonderful time!!!!!I also hope everything is well with you!!!



As for the black women being upset with white women who date black men, don't worry Kelly, black women are just bitter and jealous:(!!!!!It's NO wonder black men end up with warm , loving,and caring white women who know how to treat a man!!!!!Talk to you soon!!!!:)

Mon May 23, 01:13:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

You know what, after reading Soundboyz' comment... I'm sure we've talked about this before! LOL!!

Mon May 23, 01:17:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> You know what, after reading Soundboyz' comment... I'm sure we've talked about this before! LOL!!

Just BITTER!!!

Mon May 23, 01:30:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I am NOT bitter. I'm sweet. So there!!

Mon May 23, 01:32:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

> I am NOT bitter. I'm sweet. So there!!


You're bittersweet!!!!:(

Mon May 23, 01:45:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Imara said...

I can live with that. ;}

Mon May 23, 02:17:00 PM 2005  
Blogger KR said...

Oh--looks like I didn't read back far enough in the Month of May. I saw the inter-racial (black and white) essay from earlier in the month. Sorry. I understand a little better now.

Tue May 24, 06:33:00 PM 2005  
Blogger soundboyz said...

Kelly , don't listen to these Bitter Bitties!!!!!They're just BITTER!!!!!It's a wonder that ANYONE wants to be with them!!!!:(

Tue May 24, 07:00:00 PM 2005  

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