When you find out that there has been infidelity in your relationship, you no doubt will be consumed with feelings of rage, betrayal, and self-doubt. In most instances, it will be enough to make you want to hunt that b*tch and beat her down, but what if you found out that the "other woman" is really a man? Yes, your man has been secretly having an affair with another man! This is a growing trend in the African American community known as the "DL", or the downlow lifestyle.
Because of the stereotypes of homosexuality in our society, men are either unwilling or unable to admit that they are involved in relationships with other men. Most of them do not consider themself to be gay or bi-sexual. This behavior is causing a grave health risk for women. HIV and AIDS infection rates are up among heterosexual women, in particular, African American women. The rate of infection among black women is 25 times the rate for white women. Over 30% of men who have had sex with another man admitted to having sex with a woman during the same time period.
In this day and age, with all of the risks involved and information available, what would cause a man to cheat, especially with another man?